According to medical experts, many Nigerian men are coming down with erectile dysfunction. What resulted from this reality is the increasing lamentation of women who have become sexually frustrated in their marriages due to either the sexual incapacitation of a husband or sheer neglect of his conjugal responsibilities towards her.In fact, tales abound about what many women in marriage resorted to in pursuit of their sexual satisfaction!I approached two senior friends on how they handle their sexual lives, and these are their opinions.“During my midlife, I had this constant fear that I’m approaching the age when my sexual abilities will greatly diminish or, worse, suffer some form of erectile dysfunction. I’m now over 65, and I can say that I’ve never once had any sexual issues of any type. The only thing that I have done that I can attribute my sexual longevity to is my consistency in exercise. For more than 40 years, I have exercised regularly and vigorously. I’m talking about an hour’s running or fast walking, mostly on the treadmill or on soft stadium grass, followed by at least one hour of resistance training with weights at the gym, four to five days each week, plus swimming when I have extra time for that. From my personal experience, if you do these things, your body will remain strong even at an older age and can continue to perform at its optimum. I stopped having discussions about sex with many friends because all I hear from them is one sexual problem or another, and I’m afraid to admit to them that I can still go four or five rounds without qualms. To do so will amount to rubbing it in on them. High blood pressure, diabetes, especially type 2 (adult-onset diabetes), is an easily controllable disease which regular exercise and monitoring what you eat can achieve. Stress is one thing that gets to me once in a while, but I do everything possible to avoid it. I’ve never bothered with any sexually enhancing drugs, just as I’ve never bothered with steroids or other workout supplements. I believe that life is beautiful when it comes naturally, but it takes immense and consistent hard work in the form of exercise to achieve that natural sexual longevity. My only goal when I started was to build and maintain a healthy lifestyle and habits, and the sexual benefits became the icing on the cake that I never even imagined when I started. But knowing what I know now, you can bet that I’ll never stop unless some health issues crop up that are beyond my abilities to control,” said one of them.The second response reads:See more Punch stories on Google.Add Punch on Google“Most men are not realistic about their situation, and this causes anxiety, which compounds the erectile dysfunction problem. They should embrace the problem much like someone accepting that their eyes are failing and look for glasses. Have a frank talk with your partner. Avoid any ego-tripping and be ready to accept any initial frustrations she shows. Become a good ‘headmaster’ so that your tongue can make her ‘confess loudly’.Pray you have invested in her emotional bank when all was well because most women use such moments to make a man pay for his past sins. Talk to yourself to understand that your erection is not your final definer of self.”To a married woman in these shoes, I would say…Don’t chase penis!Related NewsMy marriage… With Oyinkansola Olaleye5 things couples should discuss before marriageIs your marriage just holding your family together or shaping it?Morality aside, there is an innate disposition that propels most men here to not look kindly upon a married woman perpetually seeking who to “touch” her.Go back home and have that hard conversation with your husband.Is he open to using sex toys? Will sex toys satisfy you?How else can he get himself to attend to your sexual needs satisfactorily?I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. In fact, tales abound about what many women in marriage resorted to in pursuit of their sexual satisfaction!I approached two senior friends on how they handle their sexual lives, and these are their opinions.“During my midlife, I had this constant fear that I’m approaching the age when my sexual abilities will greatly diminish or, worse, suffer some form of erectile dysfunction. I’m now over 65, and I can say that I’ve never once had any sexual issues of any type. The only thing that I have done that I can attribute my sexual longevity to is my consistency in exercise. For more than 40 years, I have exercised regularly and vigorously. I’m talking about an hour’s running or fast walking, mostly on the treadmill or on soft stadium grass, followed by at least one hour of resistance training with weights at the gym, four to five days each week, plus swimming when I have extra time for that. From my personal experience, if you do these things, your body will remain strong even at an older age and can continue to perform at its optimum. I stopped having discussions about sex with many friends because all I hear from them is one sexual problem or another, and I’m afraid to admit to them that I can still go four or five rounds without qualms. To do so will amount to rubbing it in on them. High blood pressure, diabetes, especially type 2 (adult-onset diabetes), is an easily controllable disease which regular exercise and monitoring what you eat can achieve. Stress is one thing that gets to me once in a while, but I do everything possible to avoid it. I’ve never bothered with any sexually enhancing drugs, just as I’ve never bothered with steroids or other workout supplements. I believe that life is beautiful when it comes naturally, but it takes immense and consistent hard work in the form of exercise to achieve that natural sexual longevity. My only goal when I started was to build and maintain a healthy lifestyle and habits, and the sexual benefits became the icing on the cake that I never even imagined when I started. But knowing what I know now, you can bet that I’ll never stop unless some health issues crop up that are beyond my abilities to control,” said one of them.The second response reads:See more Punch stories on Google.Add Punch on Google“Most men are not realistic about their situation, and this causes anxiety, which compounds the erectile dysfunction problem. They should embrace the problem much like someone accepting that their eyes are failing and look for glasses. Have a frank talk with your partner. Avoid any ego-tripping and be ready to accept any initial frustrations she shows. Become a good ‘headmaster’ so that your tongue can make her ‘confess loudly’.Pray you have invested in her emotional bank when all was well because most women use such moments to make a man pay for his past sins. Talk to yourself to understand that your erection is not your final definer of self.”To a married woman in these shoes, I would say…Don’t chase penis!Related NewsMy marriage… With Oyinkansola Olaleye5 things couples should discuss before marriageIs your marriage just holding your family together or shaping it?Morality aside, there is an innate disposition that propels most men here to not look kindly upon a married woman perpetually seeking who to “touch” her.Go back home and have that hard conversation with your husband.Is he open to using sex toys? Will sex toys satisfy you?How else can he get himself to attend to your sexual needs satisfactorily?I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. I approached two senior friends on how they handle their sexual lives, and these are their opinions.“During my midlife, I had this constant fear that I’m approaching the age when my sexual abilities will greatly diminish or, worse, suffer some form of erectile dysfunction. I’m now over 65, and I can say that I’ve never once had any sexual issues of any type. The only thing that I have done that I can attribute my sexual longevity to is my consistency in exercise. For more than 40 years, I have exercised regularly and vigorously. I’m talking about an hour’s running or fast walking, mostly on the treadmill or on soft stadium grass, followed by at least one hour of resistance training with weights at the gym, four to five days each week, plus swimming when I have extra time for that. From my personal experience, if you do these things, your body will remain strong even at an older age and can continue to perform at its optimum. I stopped having discussions about sex with many friends because all I hear from them is one sexual problem or another, and I’m afraid to admit to them that I can still go four or five rounds without qualms. To do so will amount to rubbing it in on them. High blood pressure, diabetes, especially type 2 (adult-onset diabetes), is an easily controllable disease which regular exercise and monitoring what you eat can achieve. Stress is one thing that gets to me once in a while, but I do everything possible to avoid it. I’ve never bothered with any sexually enhancing drugs, just as I’ve never bothered with steroids or other workout supplements. I believe that life is beautiful when it comes naturally, but it takes immense and consistent hard work in the form of exercise to achieve that natural sexual longevity. My only goal when I started was to build and maintain a healthy lifestyle and habits, and the sexual benefits became the icing on the cake that I never even imagined when I started. But knowing what I know now, you can bet that I’ll never stop unless some health issues crop up that are beyond my abilities to control,” said one of them.The second response reads:See more Punch stories on Google.Add Punch on Google“Most men are not realistic about their situation, and this causes anxiety, which compounds the erectile dysfunction problem. They should embrace the problem much like someone accepting that their eyes are failing and look for glasses. Have a frank talk with your partner. Avoid any ego-tripping and be ready to accept any initial frustrations she shows. Become a good ‘headmaster’ so that your tongue can make her ‘confess loudly’.Pray you have invested in her emotional bank when all was well because most women use such moments to make a man pay for his past sins. Talk to yourself to understand that your erection is not your final definer of self.”To a married woman in these shoes, I would say…Don’t chase penis!Related NewsMy marriage… With Oyinkansola Olaleye5 things couples should discuss before marriageIs your marriage just holding your family together or shaping it?Morality aside, there is an innate disposition that propels most men here to not look kindly upon a married woman perpetually seeking who to “touch” her.Go back home and have that hard conversation with your husband.Is he open to using sex toys? Will sex toys satisfy you?How else can he get himself to attend to your sexual needs satisfactorily?I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. “During my midlife, I had this constant fear that I’m approaching the age when my sexual abilities will greatly diminish or, worse, suffer some form of erectile dysfunction. I’m now over 65, and I can say that I’ve never once had any sexual issues of any type. The only thing that I have done that I can attribute my sexual longevity to is my consistency in exercise. For more than 40 years, I have exercised regularly and vigorously. I’m talking about an hour’s running or fast walking, mostly on the treadmill or on soft stadium grass, followed by at least one hour of resistance training with weights at the gym, four to five days each week, plus swimming when I have extra time for that. From my personal experience, if you do these things, your body will remain strong even at an older age and can continue to perform at its optimum. I stopped having discussions about sex with many friends because all I hear from them is one sexual problem or another, and I’m afraid to admit to them that I can still go four or five rounds without qualms. To do so will amount to rubbing it in on them. High blood pressure, diabetes, especially type 2 (adult-onset diabetes), is an easily controllable disease which regular exercise and monitoring what you eat can achieve. Stress is one thing that gets to me once in a while, but I do everything possible to avoid it. I’ve never bothered with any sexually enhancing drugs, just as I’ve never bothered with steroids or other workout supplements. I believe that life is beautiful when it comes naturally, but it takes immense and consistent hard work in the form of exercise to achieve that natural sexual longevity. My only goal when I started was to build and maintain a healthy lifestyle and habits, and the sexual benefits became the icing on the cake that I never even imagined when I started. But knowing what I know now, you can bet that I’ll never stop unless some health issues crop up that are beyond my abilities to control,” said one of them.The second response reads:See more Punch stories on Google.Add Punch on Google“Most men are not realistic about their situation, and this causes anxiety, which compounds the erectile dysfunction problem. They should embrace the problem much like someone accepting that their eyes are failing and look for glasses. Have a frank talk with your partner. Avoid any ego-tripping and be ready to accept any initial frustrations she shows. Become a good ‘headmaster’ so that your tongue can make her ‘confess loudly’.Pray you have invested in her emotional bank when all was well because most women use such moments to make a man pay for his past sins. Talk to yourself to understand that your erection is not your final definer of self.”To a married woman in these shoes, I would say…Don’t chase penis!Related NewsMy marriage… With Oyinkansola Olaleye5 things couples should discuss before marriageIs your marriage just holding your family together or shaping it?Morality aside, there is an innate disposition that propels most men here to not look kindly upon a married woman perpetually seeking who to “touch” her.Go back home and have that hard conversation with your husband.Is he open to using sex toys? Will sex toys satisfy you?How else can he get himself to attend to your sexual needs satisfactorily?I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. The second response reads:See more Punch stories on Google.Add Punch on Google“Most men are not realistic about their situation, and this causes anxiety, which compounds the erectile dysfunction problem. They should embrace the problem much like someone accepting that their eyes are failing and look for glasses. Have a frank talk with your partner. Avoid any ego-tripping and be ready to accept any initial frustrations she shows. Become a good ‘headmaster’ so that your tongue can make her ‘confess loudly’.Pray you have invested in her emotional bank when all was well because most women use such moments to make a man pay for his past sins. Talk to yourself to understand that your erection is not your final definer of self.”To a married woman in these shoes, I would say…Don’t chase penis!Related NewsMy marriage… With Oyinkansola Olaleye5 things couples should discuss before marriageIs your marriage just holding your family together or shaping it?Morality aside, there is an innate disposition that propels most men here to not look kindly upon a married woman perpetually seeking who to “touch” her.Go back home and have that hard conversation with your husband.Is he open to using sex toys? Will sex toys satisfy you?How else can he get himself to attend to your sexual needs satisfactorily?I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. “Most men are not realistic about their situation, and this causes anxiety, which compounds the erectile dysfunction problem. They should embrace the problem much like someone accepting that their eyes are failing and look for glasses. Have a frank talk with your partner. Avoid any ego-tripping and be ready to accept any initial frustrations she shows. Become a good ‘headmaster’ so that your tongue can make her ‘confess loudly’.Pray you have invested in her emotional bank when all was well because most women use such moments to make a man pay for his past sins. Talk to yourself to understand that your erection is not your final definer of self.”To a married woman in these shoes, I would say…Don’t chase penis!Related NewsMy marriage… With Oyinkansola Olaleye5 things couples should discuss before marriageIs your marriage just holding your family together or shaping it?Morality aside, there is an innate disposition that propels most men here to not look kindly upon a married woman perpetually seeking who to “touch” her.Go back home and have that hard conversation with your husband.Is he open to using sex toys? Will sex toys satisfy you?How else can he get himself to attend to your sexual needs satisfactorily?I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. Pray you have invested in her emotional bank when all was well because most women use such moments to make a man pay for his past sins. Talk to yourself to understand that your erection is not your final definer of self.”To a married woman in these shoes, I would say…Don’t chase penis!Related NewsMy marriage… With Oyinkansola Olaleye5 things couples should discuss before marriageIs your marriage just holding your family together or shaping it?Morality aside, there is an innate disposition that propels most men here to not look kindly upon a married woman perpetually seeking who to “touch” her.Go back home and have that hard conversation with your husband.Is he open to using sex toys? Will sex toys satisfy you?How else can he get himself to attend to your sexual needs satisfactorily?I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. To a married woman in these shoes, I would say…Don’t chase penis!Related NewsMy marriage… With Oyinkansola Olaleye5 things couples should discuss before marriageIs your marriage just holding your family together or shaping it?Morality aside, there is an innate disposition that propels most men here to not look kindly upon a married woman perpetually seeking who to “touch” her.Go back home and have that hard conversation with your husband.Is he open to using sex toys? Will sex toys satisfy you?How else can he get himself to attend to your sexual needs satisfactorily?I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. Don’t chase penis!Related NewsMy marriage… With Oyinkansola Olaleye5 things couples should discuss before marriageIs your marriage just holding your family together or shaping it?Morality aside, there is an innate disposition that propels most men here to not look kindly upon a married woman perpetually seeking who to “touch” her.Go back home and have that hard conversation with your husband.Is he open to using sex toys? Will sex toys satisfy you?How else can he get himself to attend to your sexual needs satisfactorily?I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. Morality aside, there is an innate disposition that propels most men here to not look kindly upon a married woman perpetually seeking who to “touch” her.Go back home and have that hard conversation with your husband.Is he open to using sex toys? Will sex toys satisfy you?How else can he get himself to attend to your sexual needs satisfactorily?I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. Go back home and have that hard conversation with your husband.Is he open to using sex toys? Will sex toys satisfy you?How else can he get himself to attend to your sexual needs satisfactorily?I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. Is he open to using sex toys? Will sex toys satisfy you?How else can he get himself to attend to your sexual needs satisfactorily?I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. How else can he get himself to attend to your sexual needs satisfactorily?I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. I heard that some men now permit their wives to keep a regular sexual partner out there. But then, how many men truly want a woman who goes out there to be “touched” back in their spaces, given a choice?Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. Having extramarital affairs while living with a sexually challenged man is like constantly rubbing his inadequacies in his face. And he is bound to react someday, not as a weak man but as a wounded lion.This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. This is what I often tell men…No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. No matter what your “sins” are with your woman, please do not add “not being there for her” to that list. Never let a careless behaviour make your woman begin to peep out, because it’s often an emotional journey of no return for most women.It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit. It’s a mistake to conclude that your woman is “not sexy” in the bedroom; your best bet is to roll up your sleeves and help the sexy woman in her emerge for your benefit.